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Updated: Aug 24, 2020

Q. Dear Tea Spiller,

I haven’t been able to see my boyfriend because of COVID and I’m starting to feel like he’s losing interest. What should I do?

 A:  We are in very rough times right now. It is hard enough not being able to be as close to the ones we love. But we are lucky to have technology! You can talk to your boyfriend by text or call him. Have virtual hangouts and FaceTime or video call each other. He may just miss having you around him all the time. I believe in a relationship, communication is definitely key! So share how you feel with him and see what happens. Best of luck to you!

Q: Dear Tea Spiller,

I just found out that my parents put an ap that tracks when I drive My car and how fast I’m going and they call me all the time to criticize me about something while I’m out. What should I do?

A: That can definitely feel annoying! Your parents just want to ensure you are safe on the, and this may be the only way they know how to. The things they criticize you about are just to help you out. However, as this is hurting you, you could speak to them. Let them know how responsible you are and show them that you are able to drive well on your own. After all, seeing is believing, right?

Hope everything goes well!

Q. Dear Tea Spiller,

My friend blocked me on IG and won’t tell me why. What should I do?

A: That's a tough situation. You can start by revisiting past conversations. Did you say or do anything that may have offended your friend? Did she give any hint that they wer upset? Maybe he/she just needs some space to figure things out. In the meantime, you could kindly ask a mutual friend to check up on him/her and pass any well wishes or message. You could also pay them a visit or ask to hang out with them and talk things through through this mutual friend. But first, give some space. Good luck!

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